Are You Considering Hiring a Parent Coach?
Are you an expectant or new parent looking for advice from someone who’s been there?
Do you wonder if your preschooler is ready to start kindergarten?
Does your child struggle in school?
Are you concerned about your child’s social and emotional wellbeing, confidence, or self-esteem?
Does your child behave in ways you don’t understand and/or can’t control?
Do you have trouble motivating your child to spend time wisely?
Is your child suffering from the effects of bullying?
Could you use an ally to help bridge gaps in understanding with your child’s school?
Would you like guidance helping your child work through identity issues?
Do you have a hard time connecting with your preteen/teenager?
Are you struggling to figure out how best to support your teen as they transition to life after high school?
If so, you are certainly not alone. Parenting is hard work!
There’s good news though. Working with a coach can help you find the motivation, tools, and solutions you’re looking for. As the saying goes, it takes a village. Well, it may not require the entire village. You (caring parent/guardian) and me (parent coach) is a good place to start. When you open up about your struggles or those of your kiddo, I’ll listen and reflect back what I hear and observe. Hearing your thoughts and feelings may surprise you. Sometimes we aren’t even aware of what we know until we talk about it. What’s more, you most likely already have what it takes to improve your circumstances and might just need some guidance to see what you are capable of.
Parent coaching is useful for any parent or caregiver who is looking for support in navigating their child’s health and wellbeing, as it strives to establish positive relationships by providing education about youth development, communication, and coping skills, as well as foster confidence and self-efficacy. When you partner with me, we prioritize these goals based on your desires and needs. I guide the process by 1) helping you identify, develop, and capitalize on your strengths (and those of your family), 2) achieving personal/familial goals using solution-oriented approaches, and 3) enhancing positive experiences and emotions. As long as you have a desire to learn, I can help you to take ownership of your growth.
Depending on your circumstances, you may be working through challenges that originate (or otherwise play out) at school. I have always loved the poem, Unity (cover image). Its message is simple, yet the outcome is truly a work of art. It brings me back to the village idea. I’ve always believed that schools should hold partnering with parents a high priority, as you are your kids first and most instrumental teachers. You likely know them better than anyone else. Even with this collaboration, many children struggle at school. Issues may be exacerbated by a variety of circumstances, varying in nature- academically, socially, emotionally, behaviorally, or any combination thereof. As a parent and teacher, I learned that sometimes it helps to have someone else (a third leg of the chair) to bolster a strong foundation and further stabilize situations that arise at school. If you’ve tried to collaborate with school staff and have not seen the growth you’d hoped for, I can serve as an advocate for your family. Often, having a three-pronged approach (you and school plus a third entity) can help strengthen the connections and bridge gaps in understanding/experience.
What’s the end result?
- Strengthened multi-directional communication,
- Clearer understandings all around,
- Improved parenting skills,
- Aligned parenting strategy,
- Higher levels of confidence and courage,
- More fulfilling relationships,
- Happier, more successful kids,
- Realization of your family’s potential!
Frequently Asked Questions
Who are typical clients?
Any adult looking for help with youth. All caregivers are welcome, including parents (biological, adoptive, foster, new and expecting, etc.) and any relative or other adult who shares in the legal care and guardianship of youth.
Who typically attends coaching sessions?
You (and a parenting partner if appropriate) and I can meet on our own. I can meet with your child. Or you, your child, and I can meet together.
What concerns does parent coaching address?
Parent coaching can address any concerns you want to work on. Some common topics include:
- Academic concerns
- Anxiety
- Behavior challenges
- Bullying
- Communication
- Coping skills
- Depression
- Difficult conversations
- Identity/LGBTQ+ support
- Multicultural themes/Cultural adjustment
- Parenting skills
- Relationships
- Self-image and confidence
- Social skills
- Transitions
- Youth development
I have experience wearing multiple hats- educator, social worker, parent, coach. Whether your child’s concerns pertain to school or not, I am here to help. You and your kids deserve to be happy, fulfilled, and successful. It may take a few of us working together, but I am inspired to provide the support you need and ready to empower you in all ways possible. Reach out today!